Sunny K. Park is on a roll.
How many people want to be a millionaire, he asks, as a
roomful of hands shoot up. Then he holds up a roll of toilet
paper.
When his children were younger, he said, they used a lot
of toilet paper at one time. He admonished them that at this
rate, they would never save any money. He dramatically rips
off one sheet and holds it up.
"I told them, you only need this much," he said.
"But because I love you, I'll be a nice guy and let you
use two sheets." Laughter ripples through the room.
Is this guy for real?
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"I
came to this country with no money, no language skills
and no bank account," he said. "But I made
it. You can, too. I didn't get up at 4:30 this morning
to drive here and tell you a lie. The only reason I'm
here is because I love you, and I care about your future."
It is vintage Park, the
63-year-old businessman and founder of the Good Neighboring
Foundation, a nonprofit organization formed in 1996
to encourage immigrants --- especially Asian-Americans
--- to become active outside their communities.
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Today, he is at Fort Gordon near Augusta, where his audience
is at-risk youths enrolled in the Georgia National Guard's
Youth Challenge Academy. The participants are high school
dropouts, and until they entered this highly structured program,
most had few, if any, prospects for a bright future.
Park, who emigrated from South Korea in 1974, has come to
tell them that if he can succeed as a businessman and community
leader, they can achieve their dreams, too.
Park has visited cadets at the academy at Fort Stewart since
1998 but started his "If Sunny Can, You Can" road
show in 2000. He's been to YCA programs in Georgia, Arizona,
New Jersey and New York. Soon, he hopes to add Michigan. Teens
learn about Korea, see a Tae Kwan Do demonstration and taste
Korean foods like kimchi. Each time, Park tries to involve
the local Korean community.
Park sees it as a way to give back to the United States, where
he came to "build my American dream." After being
sworn in as naturalized citizen in 1986, he vowed to become
the "best citizen this country ever had."
His dream began in Seoul after the Korean War. Park was the
only child of a low-level bank employee and a homemaker. South
Korea was far different that the economically and culturally
strong nation it is today.
"There was limited freedom," he said. "I didn't
like it. You had to come from a good family background to
establish yourself there, and I didn't have those credentials."
Park, a self-described brat, ran away from home at 14 to "test
myself." He went to one of Seoul's many markets and begged
a vendor to let him work for free in return for room and board
and to have time off to go to school.
In 1974, he moved to the United States, first to Indiana where
he enrolled in Indiana University-Purdue University at Indianapolis,
and later to Atlanta, with his wife, Kay, and their four children.
Park became a community leader by accident. One day he was
unloading furniture from a moving van when he was approached
by another Korean man, who asked if he spoke English. The
man then asked Park to help resolve a dispute at a local car
dealership.
"That morning I became sort of a social worker,"
he said. Word spread in the community and soon Park's phone
was ringing off the hook with pleas for help.
Above and beyond.
He worked at a car dealership for a time, helping target
the Korean community. But it didn't pay enough to feed a growing
family.
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Eventually,
he decided to start a cleaning service and employ some
of the many people who were calling him for help.
One of his first jobs was at an office
park on Presidential Parkway, where a job called for
four people. He showed up with 21. "I had all 21
people in that small place," he said.
Park now runs a real estate business, a high-tech cleaning
service and his main business, General Building Maintenance
Inc. Together, the companies employ more than 3,200
people in several states.
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By the time Pin Pin Chau, CEO of the Summit
National Bank, met Park 13 years ago, he had already made
his mark in Atlanta.
"One thing that strikes me about Sunny is that he loves
his culture yet he loves his adopted country," the Hong
Kong-born Chau said. "I remember one time coming out
of some board meeting together. He looked at me and removed
his lapel pin of the American flag and pinned it on me. He
said 'Pin Pin, you need to show your patriotism.' "
Park certainly has. He is a member of the board of the National
Museum of Patriotism in Midtown and once served on a President's
Advisory Commission on Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders.
But Jenny Hwang, a reporter for The Korea Times newspaper,
said while Park is a fixture in the local Korean community,
his ideas haven't always been welcomed.
"Some people just misunderstand him," she said.
"He has a more American viewpoint, he's Christian and
he's a Republican and he loves America. Some people don't
like that. Personally, I agree with that. He's always saying
that Korean immigrants have to be good friends and good neighbors
to the Americans because we decided to live here. Some people
think it's just too much."
Unpopular decision
The biggest rift was in 2002, when Park publicly supported
Sgt. Mark Walker of Acworth, whose vehicle struck and killed
two 13-year-old Korean girls walking along a narrow country
road. The incident sparked anti-American protests in Seoul.
Park, who helped raise money for Walker's defense, was called
a Judas and said he received more than 2,000 hate e-mails.
Walker could not be reached, but his sister, Lynn Samples,
said the family appreciated Park's help. "Sunny has to
be one of the most honorable men I've ever met," said
Samples.
Park has also worked to build bridges between blacks and Koreans.
Several years ago, Park and the Rev. Gerald L. Durley, former
president of Concerned Black Clergy of Metropolitan Atlanta
and senior pastor of Providence Missionary Baptist Church,
tried to start a mentoring program for Korean business owners
and prospective African-American entrepreneurs. Part of the
goal was to bring the two communities together after years
of animosity and distrust. But it never got off the ground.
The reason, said Durley, is that they both got busy doing
other things.
Durley emphasized that he has high regard for Park. "I'd
be willing to sit down with Sunny at the drop of a hat,"
he said. 'He has the enthusiasm and zeal to do anything."
That enthusiasm is what prompted Park to wake up one recent
Tuesday and drive to Fort Gordon to serve as a mentor to more
than 100 youths.
"I feel so good about these kids," said Park, as
he donned a black baseball cap and climbed to the top of a
platform to watch a local marital arts team demonstrate Tae
Kwan Do. "These are smart kids, they just didn't have
the opportunity."
Siera Winfrey, 18, of Augusta, said she was impressed by
Park's commitment to help. "This was really an experience
for me," said Winfrey. "I've never been around Korean
people. He was telling us about being successful in life and
how to be a millionaire."
But one sheet of toilet paper? "No."